509 | Vulnerable Connection: Addressing Attachment Significance in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) is a clinically effective approach that helps couples beyond defensive behaviors and express the vulnerable attachment needs of each individual. By targeting the root of marital conflict-unmet attachment needs- EFCT reframes hurt as a longing for connection and value, which softens partners’ defenses and fosters emotional closeness. This presentation is designed for psychologists, licensed mental health professionals, pastors, and coaches seeking to deepen couples’ intimacy and communication. Participants will analyze the principles of Attachment Theory to understand how attachment significance influences a couple’s dynamics and how unfulfilled attachment needs fuel conflict. In a group setting, participants will apply Emotionally Focused methods to uncover deeper attachment meanings in conflict scenarios. Additionally, participants will identify the essential elements of effective enactments, which are carefully staged interventions that invite couples to communicate vulnerability. This session will provide opportunities to observe and practice staging these enactments and how to develop interventions that help rebuild connection and foster lasting intimacy.